I Just Found Out My Husband-to-Be Has a 9-Year-Old Child… Our Wedding Is in June
I honestly don’t know what to do right now .
My fiancé and I have been together for about three years. We did our introduction early this year , and our wedding is meant to hold this June.
Out of nowhere, I just found out he has a 9-year-old child from a previous relationship, and he never mentioned it to me once throughout our relationship !
What is breaking me the most is that I had to hear it from another person instead of the man I am about to marry.
When I confronted him, he admitted it. He said he was afraid I would leave if he told me earlier and was waiting for the right time to explain.
Right time? After three years? When wedding plans are already advanced?
Now I feel hurt, embarrassed, angry and confused at the same time. I keep wondering what else someone can hide for this long and still smile with confidence every day.
Everybody is already involved. Families know each other, money has been spent, dates have been discussed, and June is close.
I have not been myself since I heard it.
Am I overreacting if I postpone the wedding? Can trust survive something like this? Or should I take this as a sign and walk away before it is too late?
He said if I truly ever loved him I will forgive him but
Please, I need honest advice. What would you do if you were in my shoes?
